We all feel so much worried about the relationship with the future partner.
I understand, yes it might be complex. Because we are talking about two different lives coming together. But, I do feel. We need not complicate this existing complexity.
I might not be a person who is neither into a relationship nor married.
But, I believe that for the past 20+ years of my existence, I played different roles as a son, brother, friend and many other.
I just remembered, how our parents patiently used to watch us walking, talking and doing things during the initial stages of our life. I think being patient is important in a relationship.
There can be many other important things, it is not about what I think is important. We all have our own self which knows better about ourselves. Being positive and patiently figuring out wants works best for us is important i guess. Expectations, Acceptance and many others things comes into the picture. Have your own definition and if you really want someone in your life. If you really want to have a good relationship with them. You can try to have conversations to understand each other once, twice, thrice, 100th time, 1000th time.... unless you hear that they don't want you in their life. Be ready to accept the decision, be ready to be forgotten.
Be positive, create your own no guilt zone.
Have a fantastic life with your relations.
